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		<title>Invitations</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2012 03:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today our youngest son came over for the day for a short visit. He brought his girlfriend with him, and we had a nice visit. My wife actually went to pick them up at his apartment; he lives about an hour away from our house. On the way home they stopped in town and went [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today our youngest son came over for the day for a short visit. He brought his girlfriend with him, and we had a nice visit. My wife actually went to pick them up at his apartment; he lives about an hour away from our house. On the way home they stopped in town and went to the 34th annual Spring Festival in Old Town. Although we&#8217;ve lived in this area for over five years now, we&#8217;ve never gone to any of the street festivals that have been held up until now. My wife has always asked me to go with her to some of the festivals, but I&#8217;ve always resisted going, so it was good that she got our son and his girlfriend to agree to go with her to the festival this year. </p>
<p>When they arrived home from the festival, my wife was excited to show me that she had purchased some hickory syrup from a vendor at the festival. Neither one of us had ever even heard of hickory syrup before, and she said that the booth caught her eye. Having lived in New England for much of our lives, she was familiar with maple syrup &#8211; but what was this hickory syrup stuff like? The vendor was giving out free sample tastes, and all three of them had a sample. They all agreed that it was quite tasty, and bought a small bottle of it to bring home to share with the rest of the family. They told me that there was live music, and a lot of vendors and free food samples. And lots of funnel cake booths! Back in New England we called them &#8220;Doughboys&#8221; and they are so tasty! I guess that the next time my wife extends <a href="http://www.invitationbox.com/" title="invitations" target="_blank">invitations</a> to go to a festival I should accept it and go along.</p>
<p>After the festival they stopped at a grocery store to pick up the fixings for lasagna for dinner, and when they arrived home they prepared a really nice lasagna  and served it with garlic and cheese bread. We created our own dessert by combining lemon cookies and vanilla creme cookies &#8211; the combination of the two cookies was much tastier than either cookie by itself. We talked about putting some vanilla frosting in between the cookies to make them stick together, but decided against it for today. Maybe next time! </p>
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		<title>Long distance wishes</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 02:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is Mother&#8217;s Day. I called my mother to wish her a Happy Mother&#8217;s Day, and she was glad to hear from me. She was spending the day with my daughter and her sister, and planning on having a good day. I felt badly that she had not yet received the card that I sent [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today is Mother&#8217;s Day. I called my mother to wish her a Happy Mother&#8217;s Day, and she was glad to hear from me. She was spending the day with my daughter and her sister, and planning on having a good day. I felt badly that she had not yet received the card that I sent her, but things have been hectic around here lately and I just lost track of time. We had my mother-in-law come over for lunch in honor of Mother&#8217;s Day, and several of my wife&#8217;s siblings came over as well. One of them came over on his motorcycle, and we spent some time taking pictures of our bikes and took some of the folks for a ride on our bikes. One of the brothers came over with his wife and that was a mistake &#8211; the wife and my mother-in-law had been having some communication problems over the past couple of months and so there was a big family spat that erupted. My poor wife &#8211; she tries so hard to accommodate everyone and keep everyone happy, but there is always at least one of her family members that has some kind of axe to grind and all of my wife&#8217;s efforts seem to go up in flames.</p>
<p>I hope that everyone ELSE had a good Mother&#8217;s Day!</p>
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		<title>The mad dash to the Post Office</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 01:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I was a teenager, I remember my parents always waited until the very last minute to file their taxes. I can remember going with my mother to the big Post Office in the next town over, pulling into the driveway at 11:50 pm and handing the big envelope to the Post Office employee that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was a teenager, I remember my parents always waited until the very last minute to file their taxes. I can remember going with my mother to the big Post Office in the next town over, pulling into the driveway at 11:50 pm and handing the big envelope to the Post Office employee that was standing there with a big net on a pole. The net reminded me of either a big butterfly net, or the kind of net I used to envision the staff from the mental hospitals used to try to catch the mentally ill patients that were trying to escape the insane asylum.</p>
<p>Ever since I&#8217;ve been on my own, I&#8217;ve always filed my taxes much earlier than the deadline; I don&#8217;t even know if any of the Post Offices stay open that late on tax deadline day. One thing is for sure &#8211; that mad dash to the Post Office on tax deadline day is one family tradition that I don&#8217;t want to continue and pass down to future family members. The stress of waiting until the last minute for anything just is not worth it!</p>
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		<title>Not loving the city</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 01:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I appreciate the guest post, Jewel Rodgers My kids were just not loving it in the city – they weren’t really making any friends and I didn’t necessarily feel safe with them walking long distances and things like that. I thought about it for a long time and I finally made the decision last year [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate the guest post, Jewel Rodgers</p>
<p>My kids were just not loving it in the city – they weren’t really making any friends and I didn’t necessarily feel safe with them walking long distances and things like that. I thought about it for a long time and I finally made the decision last year that it’s time for us to all move out here to the country for a different life. We’ve been here for about 6 months now and the kids are adjusting really well. We got a dog and <a href="http://internet.hughesnet.com/">http://internet.hughesnet.com</a> internet so they could still get on Facebook and all that and I generally just feel more rested and less stressed being out here. My boss is allowing me to work from the farm most of the time which is great since it’s about an hour commute and I just feel good about the changes my family is making. My kids are great kids but they needed more room to thrive and I feel like now that we’re out here in the country they can really be who they were meant to be.</p>
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		<title>One mans trash is another mans treasure</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 22:07:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Presented By HipSwap Last night I was watching a repeat television show of My name is Earl. I&#8217;ve only ever watched that particular show two or three times in my life before because normally I am busy doing something else when it is on the air. But last night I was having trouble falling asleep [...]]]></description>
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<p>Last night I was watching a repeat television show of My name is Earl. I&#8217;ve only ever watched that particular show two or three times in my life before because normally I am busy doing something else when it is on the air. But last night I was having trouble falling asleep and turned on the television just as that show came on. The show was about how tornadoes kept hitting the trailer park where the show&#8217;s characters were living, and that everyone&#8217;s possessions were strewn around. When the tornado subsided everyone was going crazy trying to take possession of the items that were strewn around. </p>
<p>In a way it made me think of a treasure hunt, people looking for the &#8220;best&#8221; find. They had a &#8220;finders keepers&#8221; rule &#8211; whoever gets it in their hands first gets to keep it. What was particularly humorous about this was that people were valuing some items that would hold the interest of most people. The adage &#8220;one man&#8217;s trash is another man&#8217;s treasure&#8221; was demonstrated throughout the show. The next time I&#8217;m channel surfing and see that My name is Earl in on, I think I&#8217;ll watch it again. It was a little bit slapstick, but funny just the same.</p>
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		<title>Landscaping and hardscaping the back yard</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2012 03:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever since we bought this house several years ago my wife and I have been trying to come up with a plan to fix up the back yard into a showcase lawn that would rival anything you could see in a Better Homes &#38; Gardens magazine. We&#8217;ve been thinking about putting some patio pavers on the ground [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever since we bought this house several years ago my wife and I have been trying to come up with a plan to fix up the back yard into a showcase lawn that would rival anything you could see in a Better Homes &amp; Gardens magazine.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve been thinking about putting some <a href="http://www.systempavers.com/gallery/patios-paving.aspx">patio pavers</a> on the ground right outside of the sliding glass doors in the basement to make the area look like an outdoor living room/lounging area. I am even thinking about turning the area out there under the deck into a screen room, but first we want to take care of the yard. We&#8217;d like to make a path with <a href="http://www.systempavers.com">paving stone</a> that winds down to the platform at the pond&#8217;s edge from the back deck.</p>
<p>For now we need to come to a decision about whether to set the stones in gravel, concrete, or go the more natural route and simply have them set in mulch. I&#8217;m inclined to go with gravel or mulch because concrete does not fare well in this area. I&#8217;d like to do something in the back yard that will reduce the amount of mowing that I have to do back there; there are several steep hillsides that need to be terraced. I think that with a little bit of elbow grease that we could have this yard ship-shape in no time at all!</p>
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		<title>Doing business with family</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 02:35:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On the surface, one would think that doing business with your own family would be a good way to get started in business. After all, families are supposed to be supportive of each other, right? There is another saying, though, that the prophet is scorned in his own village. I&#8217;m sorry to say that my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the surface, one would think that doing business with your own family would be a good way to get started in business. After all, families are supposed to be supportive of each other, right? There is another saying, though, that the prophet is scorned in his own village. I&#8217;m sorry to say that my wife&#8217;s family appears to be the type of family where they will not be supportive of each others efforts and will not do anything to give each other a break. That is really sad, and makes it very difficult for anyone to become successful. Family members should not be haters, and yet it seems as if that is exactly what is going on here. Very sad, really.</p>
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		<title>Amazing Grapes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 22:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Celebrations are steeped in tradition, depending upon the occasion. I like the ones that involve a toast, like at a wedding reception. The last time I had a Champagne toast was at my parent&#8217;s anniversary party. It is always good to toast a happy couple, whether they are starting out on their life together or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://deanbarlow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/wine-dot-com.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-1806" title="wine dot com" src="http://deanbarlow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/wine-dot-com-149x1024.jpg" alt="wine dot com" width="149" height="1024" /></a>Celebrations are steeped in tradition, depending upon the occasion. I like the ones that involve a toast, like at a wedding reception. The last time I had a <a href="http://www.wine.com/v6/Champagne-and-Sparkling/wine/list.aspx?N=7155+123">Champagne</a> toast was at my parent&#8217;s anniversary party. It is always good to toast a happy couple, whether they are starting out on their life together or celebrating 40 years of marriage.</p>
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		<title>The Internet makes moving so much easier</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 04:45:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How many times have you had to move from one house to another in your lifetime? Two, three times? I don&#8217;t know about you, but I think that moving from one house to another is a huge pain in the you-know-what! When I was a young child our family moved three times, and to be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How many times have you had to move from one house to another in your lifetime? Two, three times? I don&#8217;t know about you, but I think that moving from one house to another is a huge pain in the you-know-what! When I was a young child our family moved three times, and to be perfectly honest they didn&#8217;t involve the kids in the move at all. They just sent all of us kids away for a week to a friend&#8217;s house or to a sleep-over camp and at the end of the sleep-over when our parents picked us up they just took us to our new home. Matter of fact &#8211; oh by the way, while you were gone we moved. This is our new house, and this is your new bedroom.</p>
<p>I guess we should be grateful that they came and picked us up! We never would have found them if they had just moved away and left us there! Wouldn&#8217;t that have been a nightmare for the camp owners and/or family friends! Anyway, the point being we never saw the work involved in moving, all of the packing and unpacking, none of the negotiations with <a href="http://www.thehouseremovalscompany.co.uk/" title="removal companies" target="_blank">removal companies</a>, none of the headaches.</p>
<p>Since I&#8217;ve grown up and been on my own I have had to move five times. And they were a pain. Especially the first four &#8211; prior to the invention of the Internet. I found it very difficult to locate the services that I needed to make the move go smoothly. Thank goodness for the Internet and all of the resources that I&#8217;ve been able to use to find the right companies and services that I needed to make the last move as easy as possible. It even helped me find the house that I wanted to buy!</p>
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		<title>Just when we thought spring was here</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 19:37:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We woke up to snow flurries this morning. I was rather surprised since it was quite warm out yesterday and I really thought that spring was well underway. I didn&#8217;t listen to the weather report yesterday! I was quite surprised that it continued to snow all morning long, too. Usually when it snows around here [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We woke up to snow flurries this morning. I was rather surprised since it was quite warm out yesterday and I really thought that spring was well underway. I didn&#8217;t listen to the weather report yesterday! I was quite surprised that it continued to snow all morning long, too. Usually when it snows around here it is only for an hour or two. I had to drive in to town, and the roads were just icy enough to be dangerous. The roads had not been sanded or prepared for the weather at all, so I guess the DOT was caught by surprise too!</p>
<p>There were several cars off of the road, having slid into the ditch. Whenever I see that I think to myself that the people were very lucky that they didn&#8217;t lose control while they were driving across one of the many bridges on that road. That is always something I worry about with my family when the roads are slick like that. The bridges around here don&#8217;t even look like bridges &#8211; they just have guard rails on the side of the road, and I worry that any car going at the posted speed limit of 55 could easily crash through the barriers and end up in the river or the bottom of the ravine. I don&#8217;t trust those guard rails much at all.</p>
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